A PUNCTURED BALLOON
"Pleasant words are as an
honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones."
Proverbs:16:24
Have you ever seen a balloon that has been punctured by a fingernail or
object? It only takes one little hole in the balloon to deflate it.
It may take a while for it to completely deflate but eventually all the
air goes out. You may try to patch it with something and it might
help for a while but doesn't last.
It is the same with our hearts. When someone says something negative
to us, a sarcastic remark, a discouraging word, or something that pulls us
down, that is all it takes. It only takes one discouraging or
sarcastic remark to put the hole in our hearts. That is why it is so
important to choose your friends wisely.
People can try to encourage us and tell us not to listen to those people
who delight in putting us down, but the hole is already there and nothing
anybody says or does can take the hole out of our hearts. Jesus is
the only One Who can reach down His Healing Love and completely make our
hearts new.
Someone told me that I had written something in a writing that I had
already put in another writing. I was unaware of it, but I think the
reason I used the same illustration is first of all, when I write I have
no idea what I am saying until I read it back.
Second, God probably inspired me to use the same illustration because of
what a Pastor said in a sermon I heard years ago. He said, "I've had
a lot of people ask me why I preach almost the same message Sunday after
Sunday. It is because God told me to preach it until you grasp it
and employ it in your daily lives."
Please don't say things to discourage people. Joyce Landorf says on
one of her teaching tapes: "Men and women are leaving full time ministry
in droves because we have not encouraged them."
I urge you to be an encourager of others. Let's start building
people up instead of putting them down.
March 16, 2005 |