WOW WOW WOW! I've got a testimony to share with you!
This has been one heck of a week!
On Tuesday, June 18th, the day of his high school graduation, my youngest
son, Casey, had picked up his friend, Justin, and they were headed to school
for graduation practice at 7:30AM. A 45 yr old man rolled his 87 Toyota
Celica through a stop sign directly in front of Casey. The guy died shortly
after. The passenger was in critical condition. It wiped out the Celica and
blew out almost all their windows. Our Toyota pickup that Casey was driving
was totaled.
Casey called me on someone's cell phone. When I got there I saw three big
fire trucks and six or more Highway Patrol cars. They said, because of the
fatality, they had to treat it like a crime scene until crime had been ruled
out. My husband and Justin's mom were already there. They both work together
at the high school.
Casey said he saw the guy coming and didn't see him look for oncoming
traffic, so figured he would stop, then look. Casey covered his brake and
then slammed on them when he saw the guy wasn't stopping.
Casey was the first one to go try to help the men. He and Justin had to kick
their way out of our, now destroyed, Toyota pickup. The other car leaked gas
all over so Casey tried to revive them to get them out in case of fire. He
ran back up hill to yell at the looky-lou's to call 911.
He ran back and shook the guys. The driver had blood coming out of mouth and
the passenger was making snoring sounds. He took the driver's pulse and
found a weak one. I have to say Casey has a really level head on his
shoulders. I can't imagine being in such an awful accident and being in
charge of getting help for the other car!
Casey has a few small chips in his teeth from hitting the steering wheel. We
didn't have air bags. Think about it. How do you hit the steering wheel hard
enough to chip your teeth and not lose teeth, bite your lip, or even feel
any pain afterwards? God put an angel for an airbag! He let the teeth get
chipped, where the chips can't be seen, to prove that He was there!!!!!!
GLORY
! PLUS, God provided Casey with a witness to say that Casey was not
at fault! Halleluiah!
Justin went to the hospital because he was feeling worse than Casey. His mom
talked to the paramedics there and asked questions of the investigating
police officer (who was deemed "hot" by both Casey and Justin.... she was
cute, I have to say myself). Anyway, the passenger only knew the driver for
a week. He had been picked up by the driver to get a ride to work. The car
is owned by someone else and isn't insured. The passenger had been drinking
beer that morning and had more that he was going to drink at work. The
passenger code blued twice while they were there and was revived by the
doctors.
Charlie took Casey to the doctor to get checked. His knee and ankle were
sore. Both boys' x-rays came out clean! Praise God!! That night both Casey
and Justin got to graduate with their class! I almost lost it at the
graduation as I was thinking how close we had come to not being able to
watch Casey graduate!
(Update as of November 2004:
I've been reading the depositions of everyone and have gathered more
information. The driver of the car had no driver's license, the car
was not registered nor was it insured, and the witness (a man in the car
behind the guy who pulled out in front of my son) verifies that the guy
didn't stop at the stop sign. The passenger's beer cans broke in the
accident. You aren't allowed to have alcohol in the front area of
your car, only in the trunk.
Our insurance company hired a
lawyer for us. Our lawyer is not doing everything he should.
When he forgets to mail me things I request and when he forgets to tell me
that the trial has been postponed then I am sure he is forgetting other
things as well!
A woman who works at our
lawyer's office made the comment that the only reason we are being sued
because of this accident is because the driver died. Had he lived he
would have been in jail for having the beer in his car.
So, the widow and the passenger
have retained the same lawyer which is pretty tacky on the lawyer's part.
It reveals him to be an "ambulance chaser". Our insurance
company has already offered them some money to try to make them go away.
They turned it down because they are going for the maximum amount on our
insurance policy which is $100,000 per person. So, at this time, it
appears that it will go to court. May God's will be done!)
(Update as of January 2005:
The trial begins February 7th. They are telling me that it will last
a minimum of two weeks. My poor son will be not able to work during
that time. This whole thing is just awful. I was doing a search
through local court records and found an interesting thing. The
lawyer who initiated the lawsuit got a registration violation ticket and a
speeding ticket exactly four months prior to my son's accident. He's
going to be standing in front of the jury trying to convince them that my
son was speeding, which he wasn't,
and he was guilty of speeding himself! I sure don't want to be around
when he comes face to face with the Lord and hears, "So, you are the one
who gave my precious children so much grief....")
(Update as of February 2005:
The case was settled out of court. Our insurance company paid some
money to get everyone to go away. It wasn't a lot of money, under the
circumstances, but it was not money that we owed. The experts found
Casey innocent of everything. Technically we should have been the
ones to sue, but they had nothing. Plus they suffered immensely due
to the driver's choices to run the stop sign and to not provide for his
family.)
Then, let's add more blessings to the list. So, we got cut down to one
vehicle... the big truck which has the camper on it. Our neighbor loaned us
a van. Since we didn't use our rental car coverage on our insurance, they
are paying us $10 per day until we get our settlement check!
Then.... it only took State Farm 2 days to come up with a settlement value
and it is almost $3,500 more than the blue book value!! Wow!!!
Let's add more blessings... Charlie and I didn't know what kind of vehicle
to buy. We knew we wanted something big, because we are tired of seeing
small cars destroyed in accidents and bigger is more comfortable... not
that we are getting old or anything and need comfort!
We knew we didn't want something brand new. We can't afford it and Charlie
will mess it up as he will be driving it. Charlie does side jobs sometimes
and would be hauling tools and wood, and, of course, golf clubs. We also
wanted to fit a minimum of 4 generous sized people in it comfortably.
So, that kind of narrowed it down to a pickup truck with a full back seat
or a large SUV. We went to a used car sale and checked out some different
vehicles, but were still vague as to what we wanted. Charlie leaned toward
pickup and I leaned toward SUV.
So, yesterday, we drifted on over toward the auto center to take a look at
used cars. We figured if someone turned in a vehicle to buy another then
they were happy with the one they turned in. We test drove a used Ford
Explorer, but it was a tad on the small side. It might have been fun,
though. We never had a 4 wheel drive before. So, we told the guy we were
going to keep looking as we preferred something a bit larger.
Here's the cool part. There was a family there who was signing papers to
buy a brand new Chevrolet Suburban (I think that's what they are called)
and they were trading in a '99 Ford Expedition. We got to look at the car
while it was still dirty from the old owners. We checked the ash tray...
non-smokers. We checked the engine.... had fluids and looked good. The
inside wasn't really messy and the outside only had a few scratches. We got
to talk to the previous owner. We could tell that they took good care of
it, which would have been more difficult to determine after the dealership
cleaned it up. The price was reasonable compared to the ones we had already
looked at, so we bought it.
I just knew that, with everything else He was doing, God would show us
clearly what vehicle we should buy. He did! He did! He did!
Then, the dealership loaned us a vehicle to drive until they got ours
ready, for free! God is just pouring blessing on top of blessing!